Dating a 40 year old woman

18-Dec-2015 22:02

Pictured below are some single users in their mid-thirties or early forties, taken from the first couple pages of my own local match search.

Nothing I'll talk about today pertains necessarily to any one of them, but I wanted to put forward some people to go with the statistical discussion.

Look at how men have set their age preferences on Ok Cupid: As you can see, a man, as he gets older, searches for relatively younger and younger women.

I'll be investigating this phenomenon today, with gusto and charts.

It's no secret that dating changes radically as you get older.

As you can see below, the number of online daters peaks at 24, drops sharply at around 30, and then gradually tapers off, as the remaining singletons either find mates or withdraw themselves from contention: The bar chart here shows how the ratio changes over time. In a better world, this would imply that older people don't necessarily have a harder time finding decent mates than younger ones, as the composition of the dating pool holds relatively steady from age to age.

Put another way: a 45 year-old woman shouldn't have a harder time finding a date than a 20 year-old, because the female-to-male ratios at those ages are equal (roughly 11:9).

Of course, we all know that 45 year-olds do have a much harder time, because the male fixation on youth distorts the dating pool.

I'll be investigating this phenomenon today, with gusto and charts.It's no secret that dating changes radically as you get older.As you can see below, the number of online daters peaks at 24, drops sharply at around 30, and then gradually tapers off, as the remaining singletons either find mates or withdraw themselves from contention: The bar chart here shows how the ratio changes over time. In a better world, this would imply that older people don't necessarily have a harder time finding decent mates than younger ones, as the composition of the dating pool holds relatively steady from age to age.Put another way: a 45 year-old woman shouldn't have a harder time finding a date than a 20 year-old, because the female-to-male ratios at those ages are equal (roughly 11:9).Of course, we all know that 45 year-olds do have a much harder time, because the male fixation on youth distorts the dating pool.The median 31 year-old guy, for example, sets his allowable match age range from 22 to 35—nine years younger, but only four years older, than himself.